In one study, undergrads read descriptions of men and women, some of which specified that the man or woman tells great stories. Results showed that women found men who were good storytellers more attractive as long-term partners than men who were only decent storytellers, or men whose bios didn't mention storytelling ability at all. Men, on the other hand, didn't rate women more attractive when those women were described as good storytellers. The researchers also asked the participants to indicate whether they thought the man or woman would be popular, admired, and a good leader.
Answers to these questions indicated how high-status the person seemed. Sure enough, men who were supposedly good storytellers were perceived by women as higher status. Again, though, women who were supposedly good storytellers were not perceived by men as more attractive or of higher status.
At this point, it's hard to say for sure why women are drawn to men who can tell a good story. Good storytellers may be more likely to influence others or to gain positions of authority in society. If you're not confidentabout and comfortable withyour body, a guy can tell — and beturned off — in a matterof minutes.
If you're a normally confident chickwho can get nervous around guys — especially hot ones — try focusing onlittle details around you. You can'tpay attention to how the bartenderis constructing his signature cocktailand psych yourself out at the sametime.
When hesees how good you're making yourselffeel, he'll subconsciously assumethat you're someone who loves togive and get pleasure. Okay, so you probably already knowthat guys go gaga for fun girls andsteer clear of chicks who seemuptight.
But you'll never guess why. A playfulattitude shows him you have asense of humor, and he assumes thatany woman who laughs easily is goingto be a helluva lot more pleasant tobreak out the boxing gloves with. If he's wearing a goofy shirt,tease him about it. Or if you spillyour wine or say something stupid,laugh it off instead of freezing up. Aguy will especially read into how youtalk about other relationships, soshow him that you're the type whodoesn't freak out easily by telling hima funny story about the time yourfriend's BF totally botched the firstmeeting with her parents That initial conversation you havewith him is the perfect time to mentionthat you just went to your firstforeign-film festival or have suddenlybecome obsessed with runningor cooking or whatever.
You'llsimultaneously be clueing him in towhat you like and putting one of men's biggest relationship fears torest: boredomphobia. Here are 7 surprising traits that may increase your sex appeal to the right woman.
After all, many physically attractive women are seen dating some pretty weird-looking people these days. The science of attraction is hard to predict, research shows. Sure, sex appeal is about good looks and an emotional connection , but there's also a lot going on under the surface.
You can have chemistry with an ax murderer. According to numerous studies, the eyes have it. When compared with an attractive face, voice, or body odor, a large, dilated pupil is associated with the most attractiveness in both sexes.
Both men and women find this arousal sign attractive, even if only subconsciously. The white of the eye sclera , too, is important in attracting the opposite sex. Research concludes that people with whiter as opposed to redder sclerata are seen by others as happier, healthier and more attractive. Just one more reason to get in bed early and avoid bloodshot eyes. Women look for a dark limbal ring in men. The limbal ring is the border between the iris and the sclera. This circle on the very edge of your iris may be difficult to see in those with dark eyes.
In a study at the University of Southern Mississippi in Hattiesburg, researchers reported that women found men with dark limbal rings healthier and more attractive than men without dark limbal rings.
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